What if the secret to achieving success wasn’t about working harder or chasing external goals, but rather cultivating a mindset of happiness first? In this enlightening podcast episode, Tami Muller, a certified expert in happiness studies, shares her transformative journey from the corporate world to becoming a passionate advocate for happiness. As a certified happiness instructor and author of the bestselling book How to Be on a Diet for 45 Years and Never Be Thin: A Practical Guide to Freedom and Happiness, Tami shares her journey of discovering happiness from within. With humor, candor, and relatable life lessons, Tami shows us that happiness isn’t a far-off dream, but something we can cultivate in our everyday lives. She reveals how shifting from a success-first mindset to one that prioritizes happiness can change everything; relationships, health, and success. If you’ve ever wondered how small changes can lead to monumental results in your life, this episode is for you.

Embracing Happiness as the Key to Success


Tami’s journey towards becoming a happiness advocate didn’t start with a major breakdown or crisis. She wasn’t miserable in her previous career in the business world, but something was missing. Like many of us, she thought that success was the key to happiness. Once she achieved a goal or milestone, happiness would follow, right? But as she reached those milestones, the satisfaction didn’t last. She was left chasing the next goal, never fully content.

Then came a pivotal moment. Tami discovered that happiness wasn’t a result of success;it was the precursor to success. A shift in perspective took place. Instead of waiting for success to bring happiness, she began to focus on creating happiness in her life first. And that’s when everything changed.

This realization isn’t just theoretical—it’s rooted in science. Studies show that happiness actually enhances our ability to succeed. Happy people tend to have better relationships, stronger health, and a more resilient mindset. Tami’s journey to becoming a certified Happiness Studies expert showed her that the power to create lasting change is within all of us. It’s not about waiting for the world to change; it’s about changing how we see the world and how we see ourselves.

Building a Global Community of Happiness


One of the most exciting developments in Tami’s career was her creation of the Happiness Studies Academy Alumni and Business Club. What started as a small community for graduates of the Happiness Studies program has now grown to over 1,300 members across 90 countries worldwide. This global network brings together people from diverse cultures and backgrounds who share a common goal: to spread the science of happiness in their families, communities, and professional lives.

From Africa to China, Brazil to Mexico, members of this community are putting happiness into action. Tami emphasizes how happiness transcends cultural and political boundaries, becoming a universal language that unites people. The club is a space where people can learn, grow, and take action to improve not just their own lives, but the lives of those around them. The message is clear: by prioritizing happiness, we can create meaningful change in our communities and in the world.

The Power of Small Shifts


Tami believes that true transformation doesn’t require drastic changes. In fact, the most effective shifts are often the smallest ones. She emphasizes the importance of small daily habits that, over time, can yield significant results. One of the simplest yet most powerful tools she recommends is the gratitude journal.

Writing down three things you’re grateful for each day might sound too simple to be life-changing, but research backs up its effectiveness. By focusing on the positive aspects of our lives, we retrain our brains to see the good rather than the bad. It’s a habit that’s easy to implement and incredibly impactful. Tami herself practices gratitude, sometimes mentally, and finds that it creates positive emotions that last throughout the day. Starting your day with gratitude,or ending it on a positive note can improve sleep quality, boost your mood, and reframe your perspective.

As Tami points out, this simple habit is one of the “lowest hanging fruits” for happiness. It’s quick, easy, and incredibly effective. It’s a tool that requires minimal effort but delivers maximum benefits.

Living in the Moment: The Key to True Happiness


A crucial theme in the podcast is the importance of living in the moment. Tami and Christina Daves both reflect on how we often get caught up in the rush of life, constantly looking forward to the next thing. Whether it’s waiting for our children to grow up or dreaming about future accomplishments, we miss the beauty of the present moment. Tami highlights how easy it is to overlook the simple joys in life, like spending quality time with loved ones or taking a walk outside. But as Christina shares her personal experience with the loss of her brother-in-law, she emphasizes that we don’t truly appreciate life until it’s taken away from us.

The message is clear: don’t wait to appreciate the moment. Take time every day to be present, to embrace what’s around you, and to cherish the small things. Whether it’s a sunny day, a conversation with a friend, or simply being grateful for where you are in life, living in the moment is a key element of happiness.

Small Habits, Big Results


Tami underscores that true happiness isn’t found in big, life-altering events. It’s in the small, everyday actions that elevate our mood and shape our mindset. Happiness is about the little moments that bring us joy, the daily decisions to focus on what’s good in our lives, and the intentional shifts in perspective that help us move toward a more fulfilling life.

From gratitude journals to daily walks, from savoring moments with family to embracing self-love and acceptance, these small habits can lead to big changes. It’s about creating a life where happiness is the foundation, not the end goal.

The Science of Happiness and Why It Matters


For Tami, the discovery of the science behind happiness was a game-changer. It wasn’t just about feeling good, it was about understanding the science that underpins positive emotions. Research in positive psychology shows that happiness isn’t just a feeling; it’s a state of mind that can be cultivated and nurtured. This realization made Tami passionate about teaching others the science of happiness and empowering them to implement it in their own lives.

By focusing on the positive, practicing gratitude, and living in the moment, we can increase our levels of happiness and success on a daily basis. It’s not about perfection, but progress. Happiness is a practice, not a destination.

Cultivate lasting happiness


In a world that often emphasizes achievement over well-being, Tami’s message is a refreshing reminder: happiness is the key to everything. Whether you’re looking to improve your health, relationships, or career, it starts with a mindset of positivity and gratitude. Small changes, like practicing gratitude, being present, and embracing self-acceptance, can make a world of difference. By cultivating happiness, you set the stage for success both personally and professionally.

As Tami has learned firsthand, when you prioritize happiness, success will naturally follow. So take the first step today. Start small. Embrace gratitude. Live in the moment. And watch as your life transforms, one joyful step at a time.

If you’re ready to start your own happiness journey, why not start by writing down three things you’re grateful for today? Let us know how happiness has impacted your life!

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